DISCLAIMER :- This article should be treated as an alloy of feelings generated after reading an article in this very MECCA for bloggers and a guilt thats been in my life for sometime now.Anything written here is completely based on my PERSONAL experiences and refers mosly to middle-class.So,folks continue @ your own risk coz this can piss the hell outa you.
I wasnt really surprised to find an article about the SO-CALLED-TORTURE by our parents.What it did was that it brought back the ghosts which haunted me when i was amongst the holy lot of freaking students who neva gave a shit to what their Parents yelled at the optimum level of pitching.@ 25 the biggest regret of my life is not that i wasnt able to make it to an IIM-A or i wasnt recruited by an MNC for a dream package but its about the time i wasted bloody arguing wid my Godly Parents(the comparison sounds so exagerated,unfashioned and outdated.isnt it??),the time i spent cursing God for giving me such Hitler type Parents,the smoke that went into my lungs for the purpose of letting out the frustration caused by them,everytime i felt that even breathing wasnt possible for me in their presence.
High time for us to understand that Parents are the most endearing species ever made by HIM.They are the only people in this world who can give us their everything without even having the faintest of expectation of anything in lieu.So true that God made them because His presence wid everyone wasnt possible each and everytime.They stop thinking about themselves,their desires,their dreams because they start seeing their life in us.Our wants gradually become their desire.Many of us act ignorant of the sacrifices only possible by someone Godly saying what the"F" man,they havnt done any favour on us,after all we are their responsibility.Responsibility??Bullshit.Are you kidding me??They could have so easily got rid of us had they treated us merely as byproducts of smthing they njoied doing or maybe for that matter a mistake caused by a faulty contraceptive.Petting perceptions never helped any human being.
Why do we tend to forget that each and everytime there has been a demand from us it has been granted at the soonest possible way.Why cant we remember the long hours of prayers by them when we fell sick.Havnt they forgiven us no matter how big a mistake we committed.Why do we keep forgetting that all it needed to turn their angerfilled face into a face filled wid smile was a small assurance that the mistake wont be repeated.Is it that old a thing when they spent sleepless nights thinking abt our bright future.Cant our parents have any right on us??With more experience and life cant they teach us as to whats good and whats not??Maybe they have overreacted or have been unreasonable for once in a while but cant we find ways other than lying henceforth hurting them.
Each and everytime i retrospect as to how badly i confronted them,how many times i have backstabbed them i feel like crucifying myself.Believe me it feels like a never lightning burden.I may seem to be going overboard but the biggest pain in life is the realisation of the fact that how much deeply we have hurted those who have spent literally all of their life just because our upbringing could be in the bestest possible way.
Maybe the mindset of a teenager is meant to do things it does.Maybe by the time we turn 25 we all think alike.I consider myself lucky that God made me realise my mistakes and i still have time to recuperate.Folks leave aside repaying their debts we wont ever be able to manage the first EMI.So,just for a moment stay alone,restrain our mind and then once think about the things they have done for us.I bet no child can ever think of hurting his/hers parents thereafter.
May god give me the strength and will to fulfill each and every unfulfilled dream of theirs.Amen.
Tuesday, December 16, 2008
Saturday, November 29, 2008
......for once should we say,"PITY WE ARE INDIANS."
26th November 2008 might become a very important day in Indian history for decades to come but 29th November 2008 has undoubtedly become the most relieved day for all Indians.For once the relief was more than even 15th August 1947.
The loss in the 59 hour siege is beyond repair.It doesnt need the condolences by a few ministers who can do nothing but condole.Hundreds of innocent lifes,many brave soldiers,many foreign guests,the demolition of one the most heritage symbols of our beloved country and uncountable questions,the answer to which if we dont get now we probably wont ever get,that this ferociuos assault has brought with it.This sabotage on the financial capital of an aspiring super economic power Nation has raised many questions.
Now that our brave soldiers have come triumphant,its not the time to celebrate and pet the belief of the victory of the good over evil.Lets face the fact that it wasnt us who have won but those terrorists who have won.They were here with a purpose to terrorise a Nation of a billion people.They were here to die and they died but only after their mission was accomplished.
Its not about this particular incident neither is it about Malegaon nor for any other victimised place.Its about asking hundreds of questions to ourselves and to those in the system.How much more?How much is much?When is it all going to end?When,if ever,will we respond to those carrying these carnage?Why cant we do what America did to Afghanistan?When will we stop playing petty politics to grab vote banks?Aaaaaahhhhhh,its just so painful to even think about these things.
Whats really the irony of this incident is the mere reminder of the fact that since 9/11,the greatest and might well the only attack in decades,not a single American has died of terrorists.But here ever since the 1993 blasts the quantum of attacks have only increased with every succeeding one.So,dont we dare sit relaxed in our houses.Just imagine when they strike next what are they going to strike like.This time they were 20 or 25 next time maybe they are going to be 500 for they know that striking this Nation is a childs act.These impotent people are never going to retaliate coz those in the system will never stop their lust for the damned KURSI.With corruption being the national mantra they know that if they throw money they can do anything here.Its sad but an attack of this velocity doesnt seem possible without the help of those of our own.Such a blunderous lapse in the intelligence is just unbelievable.
Millions of lifes lost in these blasts.Whats even worse is the aftermath of each and every calamity.Arnt we sick of those whos who of politics condoling and requesting for the peace to prevail.Reassuring us that those responsible will not be spared.BIG DEAL.We are still in the hunt for the mastermind of the jolts we suffered 15yrs back.Even after sufficient proofs that our neighbouring country is parenting all of this we are still effortlessly insolent.Strange,that a country on the verge of bankruptcy can manage these masterminds and dominate a Nation of over a billion aspiring to become an economic super power in a decade or two.
Why would anyone sacrifice their lifes in a country where the bravery of a martyr is questioned by some insane politicians just for the sake of their bloody votebanks.We must have forgotten the Batla house incident.The great Mr.M.C.Sharma's soul would be crying somewhere with this kinda insult.The great armymen stake their lifes for the safety of all of us and what does the Sixth pay commission do.They play havoc with what they must be paid.
When are we going to stop religionising terrorism?When are we going to stop dividing people?Sometimes for their religions sake or sometimes for the sake of their region and if not anything else just in the name of reservation quotas.There are cries amongst the people for which these politicians dont have ears to.Stop telling us whether we are Hindus or Muslims or a Bihari or Marathi.We know we are Indians.High time we tell ourselves that we are Indians and only Indians.Did we see any of the Pro Marathi campaigners showing concerns for wat was going on?For once were they ashamed of themselves finding those fighting terrorists were just not Mumbaikars but they were NATIONAL SECURITY GUARDS along with the NATIONAL ARMY.
In a country of ever increasing GDP rate cant we have sensible,intelligent and proffessional people guiding the nation,helping it overcome its crisis.Why do we have to elect our ministers majority having a criminal background,so imcompetent and self centric.In a country that has produced leaders like Netaji Subhas Chandra Bose,Bhagat Singh,Raj Guru,Chatrapati Shivaji,Mangal Pandey and various others cant we find anyone potent enough to lead us.We saw the anguished reactions of some affluent people on various news channels but I as an average Indian question the Suhel Seths,the Rahul Bajajs,the Arnab Goswamis and various other whos who of the society,Who afterall do we opt for if not these marons.Do we have an option?Why cant these people with intelligence,money and influence come up and take up the social responsibility.
Wasnt it agonising to see the convoy of the VVIPs arrive at the incident site with such hardened security.It appeared as though whole of country might end up loosing their lifes but not a scratch must come to these governing us nowhere.
For once should we say,"PITY WE ARE INDIANS."The answer is NO.So,lets pledge to ourselves that we will not anymore let these in power make a mockery of ours.Lets vow that next time these cheap politicians ask us to do anything non-sensical,unethical we will stand against it united.Lets say to ourselves that the next time we will not think the communal way,regional way not even the caste way coz theres only one way of thinking and thats INDIAN.Let us all stand in solidarity and bring on a change which will inspire the world and we would chorus"YES WE CAN."
For once sense will prevail in India.AMEN.
P.S.-This has not been written as an act of heroism,but in response to the feelings generated from the visions of the last three days.Let the souls of those lifes lost rest in peace.God give their families strenth.God bless.
The loss in the 59 hour siege is beyond repair.It doesnt need the condolences by a few ministers who can do nothing but condole.Hundreds of innocent lifes,many brave soldiers,many foreign guests,the demolition of one the most heritage symbols of our beloved country and uncountable questions,the answer to which if we dont get now we probably wont ever get,that this ferociuos assault has brought with it.This sabotage on the financial capital of an aspiring super economic power Nation has raised many questions.
Now that our brave soldiers have come triumphant,its not the time to celebrate and pet the belief of the victory of the good over evil.Lets face the fact that it wasnt us who have won but those terrorists who have won.They were here with a purpose to terrorise a Nation of a billion people.They were here to die and they died but only after their mission was accomplished.
Its not about this particular incident neither is it about Malegaon nor for any other victimised place.Its about asking hundreds of questions to ourselves and to those in the system.How much more?How much is much?When is it all going to end?When,if ever,will we respond to those carrying these carnage?Why cant we do what America did to Afghanistan?When will we stop playing petty politics to grab vote banks?Aaaaaahhhhhh,its just so painful to even think about these things.
Whats really the irony of this incident is the mere reminder of the fact that since 9/11,the greatest and might well the only attack in decades,not a single American has died of terrorists.But here ever since the 1993 blasts the quantum of attacks have only increased with every succeeding one.So,dont we dare sit relaxed in our houses.Just imagine when they strike next what are they going to strike like.This time they were 20 or 25 next time maybe they are going to be 500 for they know that striking this Nation is a childs act.These impotent people are never going to retaliate coz those in the system will never stop their lust for the damned KURSI.With corruption being the national mantra they know that if they throw money they can do anything here.Its sad but an attack of this velocity doesnt seem possible without the help of those of our own.Such a blunderous lapse in the intelligence is just unbelievable.
Millions of lifes lost in these blasts.Whats even worse is the aftermath of each and every calamity.Arnt we sick of those whos who of politics condoling and requesting for the peace to prevail.Reassuring us that those responsible will not be spared.BIG DEAL.We are still in the hunt for the mastermind of the jolts we suffered 15yrs back.Even after sufficient proofs that our neighbouring country is parenting all of this we are still effortlessly insolent.Strange,that a country on the verge of bankruptcy can manage these masterminds and dominate a Nation of over a billion aspiring to become an economic super power in a decade or two.
Why would anyone sacrifice their lifes in a country where the bravery of a martyr is questioned by some insane politicians just for the sake of their bloody votebanks.We must have forgotten the Batla house incident.The great Mr.M.C.Sharma's soul would be crying somewhere with this kinda insult.The great armymen stake their lifes for the safety of all of us and what does the Sixth pay commission do.They play havoc with what they must be paid.
When are we going to stop religionising terrorism?When are we going to stop dividing people?Sometimes for their religions sake or sometimes for the sake of their region and if not anything else just in the name of reservation quotas.There are cries amongst the people for which these politicians dont have ears to.Stop telling us whether we are Hindus or Muslims or a Bihari or Marathi.We know we are Indians.High time we tell ourselves that we are Indians and only Indians.Did we see any of the Pro Marathi campaigners showing concerns for wat was going on?For once were they ashamed of themselves finding those fighting terrorists were just not Mumbaikars but they were NATIONAL SECURITY GUARDS along with the NATIONAL ARMY.
In a country of ever increasing GDP rate cant we have sensible,intelligent and proffessional people guiding the nation,helping it overcome its crisis.Why do we have to elect our ministers majority having a criminal background,so imcompetent and self centric.In a country that has produced leaders like Netaji Subhas Chandra Bose,Bhagat Singh,Raj Guru,Chatrapati Shivaji,Mangal Pandey and various others cant we find anyone potent enough to lead us.We saw the anguished reactions of some affluent people on various news channels but I as an average Indian question the Suhel Seths,the Rahul Bajajs,the Arnab Goswamis and various other whos who of the society,Who afterall do we opt for if not these marons.Do we have an option?Why cant these people with intelligence,money and influence come up and take up the social responsibility.
Wasnt it agonising to see the convoy of the VVIPs arrive at the incident site with such hardened security.It appeared as though whole of country might end up loosing their lifes but not a scratch must come to these governing us nowhere.
For once should we say,"PITY WE ARE INDIANS."The answer is NO.So,lets pledge to ourselves that we will not anymore let these in power make a mockery of ours.Lets vow that next time these cheap politicians ask us to do anything non-sensical,unethical we will stand against it united.Lets say to ourselves that the next time we will not think the communal way,regional way not even the caste way coz theres only one way of thinking and thats INDIAN.Let us all stand in solidarity and bring on a change which will inspire the world and we would chorus"YES WE CAN."
For once sense will prevail in India.AMEN.
P.S.-This has not been written as an act of heroism,but in response to the feelings generated from the visions of the last three days.Let the souls of those lifes lost rest in peace.God give their families strenth.God bless.
Sunday, October 19, 2008
A WARRIOR --- SO COURAGEOUS $ GUTSO
It was a lazy morning and quite unusually i woke up cursing God as to why he made a day called SUNDAY and then the SECURITIES EXCHANGE BOARD OF INDIA(SEBI) as to why they dint allow trading on this day,as if my cursing would be of any help...BIG DEAL!!!!!!!!!However,i left the room folding my bed and reached for the filter in the kitchen,i usually have a couple of glasses of water to build some pressure,as it is m under a lot of pressure nowadays(ask ne share bazaar wala).Just as i was about to reach the drawing room i heard a conversation going on between my aunt and my cousin,5 yrs older to me.Did i mention i live in ma aunts house in delhi and that my cousin is also a now turned Ass from Horse in stock markets.
My cousin :- (as always charged up and at his expressive best)
kya sochti ho??kitno ko maar giraya pata hai???saale.log bolte 30,35,40(plz dnt feel offended,,its just a count nothing else)main 55 ko maar ke 50 bol raha hun!!!
God wish i could jot down his expressions,i bet fortunes he can give Nana Patekar a run for his money.
I could feel my already build pressure disappearing.I shook head in disbelief and pinched my already damned screwed bums to confirm whether its yet another nightmare that i have been getting for sometime now,thanks to the ever dipping SENSEX.But no twas all real that went into my ears.Holyshit,wat actually have u done bro???I rem we all(read share bazaarwalas,mind it we owed some respect before but now.......!!!!!!!)using some really beautiful adjectives for the people operating the markets.Folks,believe me these Delhi walas when they slang they are at their Holy Raping best.The jam session last nite was no different.
My aunt:- Babu,ab hai to hai.kya kar sakte hain??
My cousin :- Mummy,main kya batau??main to paagal ho jaaunga,aur kitno ko maru.saale khaya peeya sab nikaal rahe hai.25-30 lashein to main abhi nikaal sakta hun aur 10-12 dead bodies isme latak rahi hain(indicating towards his weapon he used for this mass destruction)
I said to myself addressing him coz u dare utter a word when hes at his angry best leave aside his destructive best,"shant gadhadhari Bheem shant,markets wapas accha hoga and we would demand respect again."
Now,if u r looking out for ur bike or are actually rushing on bus no.11 to reach ur nearest police station to reaport this carnage,for Christs sake DONT.My bro was sincerely referring to the MOSQUITOES ki sena that attacked yesternite and here he was all Ga-Ga over his heroics as to how he faced them all alone with just an electronic lawn tennis look alike racket.A racket that wud have made ROGER FEDERER proud.
Gosh!!! i sighed a breathe of relief and before i could figure out anything else i found out that i gotta rush to the toilet.
Hmmmmmmm,,,i wonder whether the heroics of this warrior wud find a place in the History text books but definitely my new born niece wud hear his father's super-hero tales from me.For now,,,Bachana-ae-macchharon lo yeh aa gaya...................!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My cousin :- (as always charged up and at his expressive best)
kya sochti ho??kitno ko maar giraya pata hai???saale.log bolte 30,35,40(plz dnt feel offended,,its just a count nothing else)main 55 ko maar ke 50 bol raha hun!!!
God wish i could jot down his expressions,i bet fortunes he can give Nana Patekar a run for his money.
I could feel my already build pressure disappearing.I shook head in disbelief and pinched my already damned screwed bums to confirm whether its yet another nightmare that i have been getting for sometime now,thanks to the ever dipping SENSEX.But no twas all real that went into my ears.Holyshit,wat actually have u done bro???I rem we all(read share bazaarwalas,mind it we owed some respect before but now.......!!!!!!!)using some really beautiful adjectives for the people operating the markets.Folks,believe me these Delhi walas when they slang they are at their Holy Raping best.The jam session last nite was no different.
My aunt:- Babu,ab hai to hai.kya kar sakte hain??
My cousin :- Mummy,main kya batau??main to paagal ho jaaunga,aur kitno ko maru.saale khaya peeya sab nikaal rahe hai.25-30 lashein to main abhi nikaal sakta hun aur 10-12 dead bodies isme latak rahi hain(indicating towards his weapon he used for this mass destruction)
I said to myself addressing him coz u dare utter a word when hes at his angry best leave aside his destructive best,"shant gadhadhari Bheem shant,markets wapas accha hoga and we would demand respect again."
Now,if u r looking out for ur bike or are actually rushing on bus no.11 to reach ur nearest police station to reaport this carnage,for Christs sake DONT.My bro was sincerely referring to the MOSQUITOES ki sena that attacked yesternite and here he was all Ga-Ga over his heroics as to how he faced them all alone with just an electronic lawn tennis look alike racket.A racket that wud have made ROGER FEDERER proud.
Gosh!!! i sighed a breathe of relief and before i could figure out anything else i found out that i gotta rush to the toilet.
Hmmmmmmm,,,i wonder whether the heroics of this warrior wud find a place in the History text books but definitely my new born niece wud hear his father's super-hero tales from me.For now,,,Bachana-ae-macchharon lo yeh aa gaya...................!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Tuesday, April 1, 2008
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