DISCLAIMER :- This article should be treated as an alloy of feelings generated after reading an article in this very MECCA for bloggers and a guilt thats been in my life for sometime now.Anything written here is completely based on my PERSONAL experiences and refers mosly to middle-class.So,folks continue @ your own risk coz this can piss the hell outa you.
I wasnt really surprised to find an article about the SO-CALLED-TORTURE by our parents.What it did was that it brought back the ghosts which haunted me when i was amongst the holy lot of freaking students who neva gave a shit to what their Parents yelled at the optimum level of pitching.@ 25 the biggest regret of my life is not that i wasnt able to make it to an IIM-A or i wasnt recruited by an MNC for a dream package but its about the time i wasted bloody arguing wid my Godly Parents(the comparison sounds so exagerated,unfashioned and outdated.isnt it??),the time i spent cursing God for giving me such Hitler type Parents,the smoke that went into my lungs for the purpose of letting out the frustration caused by them,everytime i felt that even breathing wasnt possible for me in their presence.
High time for us to understand that Parents are the most endearing species ever made by HIM.They are the only people in this world who can give us their everything without even having the faintest of expectation of anything in lieu.So true that God made them because His presence wid everyone wasnt possible each and everytime.They stop thinking about themselves,their desires,their dreams because they start seeing their life in us.Our wants gradually become their desire.Many of us act ignorant of the sacrifices only possible by someone Godly saying what the"F" man,they havnt done any favour on us,after all we are their responsibility.Responsibility??Bullshit.Are you kidding me??They could have so easily got rid of us had they treated us merely as byproducts of smthing they njoied doing or maybe for that matter a mistake caused by a faulty contraceptive.Petting perceptions never helped any human being.
Why do we tend to forget that each and everytime there has been a demand from us it has been granted at the soonest possible way.Why cant we remember the long hours of prayers by them when we fell sick.Havnt they forgiven us no matter how big a mistake we committed.Why do we keep forgetting that all it needed to turn their angerfilled face into a face filled wid smile was a small assurance that the mistake wont be repeated.Is it that old a thing when they spent sleepless nights thinking abt our bright future.Cant our parents have any right on us??With more experience and life cant they teach us as to whats good and whats not??Maybe they have overreacted or have been unreasonable for once in a while but cant we find ways other than lying henceforth hurting them.
Each and everytime i retrospect as to how badly i confronted them,how many times i have backstabbed them i feel like crucifying myself.Believe me it feels like a never lightning burden.I may seem to be going overboard but the biggest pain in life is the realisation of the fact that how much deeply we have hurted those who have spent literally all of their life just because our upbringing could be in the bestest possible way.
Maybe the mindset of a teenager is meant to do things it does.Maybe by the time we turn 25 we all think alike.I consider myself lucky that God made me realise my mistakes and i still have time to recuperate.Folks leave aside repaying their debts we wont ever be able to manage the first EMI.So,just for a moment stay alone,restrain our mind and then once think about the things they have done for us.I bet no child can ever think of hurting his/hers parents thereafter.
May god give me the strength and will to fulfill each and every unfulfilled dream of theirs.Amen.
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